Daddy Issues – Where to Begin
I hear it all the time, young women coming into their sexuality long before there is any kind of opportunity to experience anything but maybe self stimulation.
“I was 13 and I was on daddy’s lap and he had an erection. It excited me. I sat on it and bounced on it…” (Fully clothed) “I was so curious. I wanted to see it and touch it”
Daddy Porn
“My daddy was always watching porn, he never really hid it. At first it was awkward. He always had this horny sexual energy that I didn’t know what to do with. Then my hormones kicked in. Suddenly I couldn’t stop fantasizing about my daddy molesting me”
“I would hang out on my dad’s boat in the summer topless. I loved the way my daddy and his friends looked at me”
Dad Cuming
“I could hear my daddy fucking my stepmom in the bedroom next to me. I wanted him to do that to me.”
Lick Me Daddy
“I loved thinking about my daddy’s tongue licking up and down my pussy. My clit was feeling so good, I drove myself crazy imagining what his tongue would feel like on my clit and in my pussy.”
Bad Daddy’s
There are stories that are way more naughty. Some daddy’s have been very bad. Now you find yourself craving something that you are confused about. Was it wrong? Should I feel guilt or shame? Do my desires mean I’m broken? Will I or can I be satisfied with what’s “appropriate?”
Don’t beat yourself up. There are all kinds of things to consider.
Perv Dad
First I do not want to diminish in any way shape or form, any traumatic event or behavior that caused you harm. I am all too aware that many daddy’s have caused pain, and all kinds of negative consequences for so many women. I do not condone or support pedofiles in any way shape or form.
Dealing with Dad and Daughter Taboo
Of course the healthy way to come into your sexuality is on your terms as an adult.
Second; if you have been sexually abused by your father, I will presume that you have sought professional counseling and guidance.
Third; You did not have control of when your body imprinted your sexual interests and preferences. That happens when it happens. Hopefully it happens during positive, appropriate circumstances.
Choosing Ageplay Daddy activities to take back control
What you do have control of, is what you do as an adult. Now you can choose what you desire and who you engage with.
Finding a daddy (in your case) allows you to take control of your body now. To direct your pleasure in the direction you wish. To complete something that is incomplete. To face your shame or guilt, if any, with someone who is nonjudgmental.
Daddy Kink Meaning and Resolutions
Most women who come to me for a daddy experience are looking to complete unresolved childhood sexual desires. Some are looking to erase their daddy desires.
I work with both and occasionally some variants.
The good news is typically it’s fun and exciting to do either type of work you seek.
Daddy Fantasy Examined
For this article we look at your unresolved childhood fantasy of daddy as the (appropriate) male role model. Lots of women will seek to find a man like daddy to marry. So it is the early development of sexual interests that inspired sexual fantasies we delve into here.
Mostly we consider that you are a sexual being and your daddy was a sexual being. Daddy had admirable attributes like loving, strong, stable and fun. So naturally daddy was easy to love.
Daddy Little Girl Dynamic
His masculinity made him different. His behavior was not like Mom’s. It seems only normal for a little girl to have all kinds of feelings and emotions for daddy.
Curiosity About Naked Daddies
As a little girl develops, love for daddy naturally evolves to sexual curiosity. Daddy is safe. Other men in the world? Maybe not so much. So wondering about what naked masculinity is about may seem logical around daddy.
Little girls aren’t supposed to have to bother their minds with what is “appropriate” so wanting to start figuring out what sex and men have that makes them physically different seems ok with daddy.
But as you read this you know it’s just not that simple. It may seem to be, when you are 6 or 10 but hopefully daddy did the right thing and behaved appropriately even if you didn’t.
Pondering Daddy and Daughter Naked
Where I’m going with this, is that for all those years your curiosity and libido were going crazy with desire to learn, discover, touch, see and know about, your mind imprinted desires and cravings that just haven’t gone away. They remain unresolved.
So what do you do? Here’s an analogy.
When an amputee loses a hand and or arm, sometimes they continue to feel a phantom pain in the limb that isn’t even there. To alleviate this pain, doctors can set up a mirror in a way that projects the remaining limb to appear in place of the missing limb.
This allows the patient to stretch, flex and move the remaining limb while looking at where the missing limb is and seeing that limb move, stretch and flex albeit through the mirror. This tricks the mind into feeling like the missing limb is working out its pains.
I Can Be Your Surrogate Daddy
I’m simply your daddy’s mirror image. You can work those sexy desires out with someone that is neither related or inappropriate. This opens doors to resolve desires for daddy as if they happened for you.
Role Playing Daddy Daughter Sexual Scenarios
This may eventually make daddy fantasies feel complete and fulfilled. Or it can lead to being a lifelong desire. I leave it up to you what your intentions are for playing out your fantasies. I’m here to be your non-judgemental partner. To let you revisit non-fulfillment. To play it out in a healthy and positive adult recreation in which you are in control.
Well except for those places where you wanted daddy to be in control.
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